beatrizlp
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dont mind me, im only dying,,,
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Post by beatrizlp on Aug 14, 2008 13:29:04 GMT -5
i don't know how much longer i can deal with my parents. my dad got my at me the other day when he was telling me to do something on the internet for him, i told him sure. then he asked me if i knew what he said, i said yeah, and then he asked me what it was he had said. and of course i wasn't paying attention, so i said i didn't know and i forgot. he got soo mad at me he started calling me a disgrace and said i was full of mistakes, and i was very disrespectful, and i always have a bad attitude. he's been ignoring ever since. he won't talk to me, look at me, he won't even be in the same room as me until i leave. it's hard because both of my parents ALWAYS do this to me whenever they get mad at me. i remember my mom completely ignored me for at least a month and a half a little earlier than this. . . and now my dad doing the same again. it makes me feel like i am a big disgrace. it makes me feel useless and worthless. . . . and they never see that they're just hurting me more.
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Luliii
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You shouldn't listen to a woman who's just had her heart broken, we tend to lie
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Post by Luliii on Sept 14, 2008 13:17:44 GMT -5
Hey...it once happened to me...like 3 years ago my father ignored me during a week. And i still don't know why. I often quarrel with my parents too...about everything and nothing..and my father is kinda violent...i have been violent too, and since i got really arrogant and all of that, this year i took the decision to calm down. I won't say it works, but it helps a bit. I don't know how to advice you or what, but i tell you, that you're not alone ^^ Gooood Luck !
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Post by cricket on Sept 18, 2008 12:26:04 GMT -5
i often quarrel with my parents but they never ignored me...and when they start yelling they usually make me feel like s**t....and i get mad but i remember that that's not the way of fixing the problem and i calm down and discuss with them about this(i become very serious) and they listen to me...you should try this...and if it doesn't work....i don't know what else to do ... you have to act like a grown up and u must be calm cause else is useless
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Post by Gabriel on Sept 19, 2008 11:29:04 GMT -5
that ALWAYS happens to me xD...specially with my mum when she askes me to something at home before she leaves and then when she's back and sees I've done anything she starts shouting at me ^^ but...she's used to...besides she's sort of like me. It runs in the family. I just dont pay attention to them when they tell me off
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beatrizlp
Needs a Life
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dont mind me, im only dying,,,
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Post by beatrizlp on Sept 20, 2008 20:47:47 GMT -5
yea... if there's anything i've learned this past year is that i DO have alot of growing up to do but hey, i'm only 15! i've still got plenty of learning to do in my years. but for the mean time all i can really do is understand the fact that we're only human and EVERYONE makes mistakes i'm working on my own personal problems and have been enjoying alot of things now that i'm not always ignorant, negative and down lifes gotten alot better for me...
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